February 03, 2026
February Updates from Friends - Stockton
February is a month of celebration, reflection, and hope here at Friends of the Children – Stockton.
As we honor Black History Month, our youth have been creating projects for our “Dream Wall”, taking time to learn about Black leaders and remember that every child deserves to dream big and have someone who believes those dreams are possible. Black History Month is a time to show our youth that representation matters, resilience inspires, and the future belongs to those we invest in today.
This month, we want to share two stories that show what happens when a child has someone who shows up, believes in them, and stays through challenges and victories alike:
Jewel's Journey: $100 Mustang Bucks Goal
Early in the school year, Jewel* dreamed of purchasing a karaoke microphone from her school store. The goal felt big, but her Friend (mentor) helped her break it down into manageable steps. Together, they talked about how Mustang Bucks are earned through homework, class participation, and positive choices.
Jewel stayed committed, frequently asking to count her Mustang Bucks and celebrating each milestone. When tempted to spend on smaller items, she stayed focused on her long-term goal. With consistent support, Jewel reached her $100 goal. Her teacher and classmates celebrated with her, reinforcing her sense of belonging and confidence.
This accomplishment represents Jewel's growth in goal-setting, self-discipline, and belief in herself. She's already excited to set her next goal.
Vera's Growing Independence
Vera's mom, Vanessa, shared that Vera* had long struggled with sleeping in her own bed, often choosing to sleep in her parents' room or her sister's bed instead. Her parents tried supportive strategies, including a night light and bedtime routines, but Vera continued to feel unsafe sleeping alone.
Vera's Friend (mentor) had ongoing conversations with her about bravery and independence. During our Holiday event, Vera selected a large panda bear donated by the Stockton Kings.
Knowing pandas are Vera's favorite, her Friend told her the panda had special powers to keep her safe at night.
Vera connected with this idea immediately. Soon after, she proudly shared that she'd been sleeping in her own bed between her panda bear and Bluey stuffed animal. Vanessa confirmed this progress, expressing how happy and relieved the family was. This milestone reflects Vera's growing self-regulation, independence, and trust.
These stories reflect the heart of our model: One child. One Friend. 12+ years, no matter what. Our Friends are trained, professional mentors who show up week after week, building the kind of consistent, caring relationship that helps children develop confidence, resilience, and the belief that their dreams are achievable.
We are currently enrolling our second cohort of youth. If you know of a family in Stockton who would benefit from our services, please contact Vanessa.
As we continue to grow as a chapter, we are deeply grateful for our community partners and supporters who believe in long-term mentorship. Because of you, children in Stockton have someone who listens, stays, and believes in their potential.
Thank you for being part of this work and for helping us build a strong foundation for Stockton's youth!